Aw, Nuts
This peanut-allergy thing is disconcerting. We're nut-freaks in Denguy Haus. We loves all types of nuts. We have bags of walnuts and pecans in our cupboards. We have a tin of trail mixed-type nuts and things on hand regularly. I have jars of salty, flavoured peanuts in the TV room for movie-watching. We would be lost without our Just Peanuts organic peanut butter. If I could send peanut butter sandwiches to school, both of my kids would be fatsos. We rip through a 500 mL (1 pint) jar in about a week. But others have a severe problem with peanut products and we should concern ourselves with the well-being of others. It's unfortunate and frustrating, too. When I was wee, I never heard of anyone having peanut allergiesjust where the heck did this allergy to peanuts come from?
The Allergy Asthma and Immunology Society Of Ontario states on their web site: "Sensitization may possibly occur during a pregnancy when the mother overindulges in or perhaps even just eats peanut products, and peanut proteins have even been found in breast milk." Ah, good, I'm so glad we figured it out: it's the mother's fault. Can't we blame additives or processing methods or farming techniques or over-saturation of peanut products in our food supply? No, noblame the mother. There's also a theory on the possibility of prevention by early exclusion in a child's life. So, who knows? And, if we can't figure it out, what do we do about it in the mean timeban peanut products in our homes and schools?
Keeping peanut products out of our homes is easier than keeping it out of our schools. Not all parents will comply and then does it become the responsibility of the school to control the peanut infringement? In a CBC Marketplace article, Marilyn Allen says noher daughter died after using a knife with residual traces of peanut butter. She believes it shouldn't be up to the schools, and cites better education of our children as a more effective defense. "...when you look at a ban, you're asking for a reduction in vigilance. Personally, I'd rather see everyone striving for safety."
Schools are also reluctant to impose a full-on ban of peanuts due to liability problems. If they ban a substance, they take responsibility for the consequences should that banned substance cause harm to a child on school property. Besides, what about after hours or off of school property?
Neither of my children have friends with peanut allergies (that I'm aware of)no friends who come to our home, to be sure. I have a niece who's best friend is allergic to peanuts and, to make the home safe for her visits, they have removed (to the best of their knowledge) all products containing peanuts save for trail mix which is kept in their top-most cupboard. The visiting child is well versed in safety precautions and knows what not to eat, so peanut butter was the biggest threat due to its sticky residual properties. Once you spread it on bread, it could be on your fingers then the counter, and so on. Better safe than sorry.
Holidays must be the most difficult for those with the allergy. It would seem that all chocolates are processed on the same machinery as peanuts probably for cost-cutting measures. A few years ago, I switched to only dishing out certified peanut-free products on Halloweenthe ones that have the Peanut-Free logo or that clearly state that they are peanut free. A small step, but an important one. Now I'm wondering about my home in general. At the moment we still eat peanut butterwe just have to be diligent about our hand-washing and teeth-brushing before we head to school.
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Refs and Info:
The Allergy Asthma and Immunology Society of Ontario
CBC Marketplace: The Politics of Peanuts
Calgary Allergy Network: Why Don’t We Just Ban Peanuts (and Nuts) At School? by Nancy Wiebe
Peanut Allergy Online Resource Guide
Of course, Peanut Free Mama has a whole host of sites on this and similar topics on her blog page, as does Jenny at The Nut-Free Mom Blog. See for yourself.



13 Folks say:
Thanks for your concern about this topic. My daughter has severe nut allergies and I really appreciate any parents who try to see it from our side. It's a complicated issue, to be sure, and just one more thing for parents to worry about these days, as you point out in your post.
Also, thanks for buying "safe" candy for Halloween. That makes a big difference to kids who have to toss 90% of their treat bags!
My kids have to try peanut butter for the first time at our doctor's office, which is rather stressful - one of my husband's cousins has a full-fledged severe peanut allergy. I very carefully avoided peanut products through all of my pregnancies, and so far, so good. The Baby's allergies won't affect what other people eat around her, but it's something that we need to be concerned about all the time, and it's exhausting.
It's really nice to hear a parent writing about this with concern, because a lot of people just feel annoyed at their sandwiches being limited, you know?
The nut allergy thing is scary shit.
We have done the nut-free halloween stuff for years because my wife used to teach kindergarten and therefore knew kids who had to toss their whole bag out if one piece had nuts in it.
I'm wondering what will happen when my daughter goes to school. Does that mean she can't have peanut butter for breakfast? Will her allergic friend die in my kitchen because I forgot to put the PB&J knife in the dishwasher?
my favorite part? your rant on blaming the mother. Because you are right: they're wrong. This is not caused by pregnant women who love peanut butter.
In my experience, the children with allergies are very aware and very vigilant. It's quite interesting what they are capable of at a young age when it's a life-threatening matter. I don't mean that to be flippant - just an observation that we CAN raise our expectations perhaps a bit higher than they are now.
we're the same at our house-we're nuts for nuts! (and seeds).
we are heavy peanut butter eaters and i'm kinda glad we can't have it at school or it's probobly all my kids would eat.
there are so many alternatives-and from now on, i will only hand out peanut free candy on halloween!
I have wondered this myself, having had three children in my home with epi pens left by a parent up on my shelf....just in case.
I do not now what the solution is. All I know is it must be hard to be the parent of a child with such extreme allergies.
Nut allergies are too big for my head. Like you, I just don't remember then while growing up.
My son's teacher last year had a nut allergy though. We loves our peanut butter too, so he'd eat it at home. I'd watch him slowly wipe his fingers on his chest while he ate and talked about Spiderman kicking the Green Goblin's ass. Then we'd strip him, wash him down, brush his teeth again and send him out to get a big hug from the world's best SK teacher who has a deadly allergy to nuts.
i honestly can say that i have never thought of or considered anything to do with peanuts... i just eat them and feed them to my monkeys at home... interesting, food for thought for sure :)
I personally prefer to blame my mother for everything...actually your post reminded me that I did a boo boo and accidently sent the big one to school with leftover stir-fry that had cashews in it-she quickly tossed it out,etc and sternly reprimanded me for my mistake-kids are very well educated about the possible extreme dangers of peanuts-it's something they are very used too thankfully and having a peanut -free school situation is just a matter of course for them.
Papoosie Girl sat beside a boy with a severe peanut allergy last year. I never allowed peanut butter for breakfast since I just couldn't imagine why anyone would take that risk. It would be great if I could send peanut butter sandwiches to school, but we can certainly deal with it.
We also only give out the Neilson mix that is peanut-free, it seems like the best choice so all kids can enjoy Halloween.
I, for one, was a bit pissed to find out that my son's 3-year-old daycare room has gone Peanut Free.
I am a lemming. It didn't concern me until I had to deal with it personally.
My son LOVES peanut butter & jelly. I was so sure that when I bought soy peanut butter he would freak out. But he likes it even better then the real stuff.
Go figure.
I'm with you - where did this stuff come from? Perhaps the allergies have always been there, and it wasn't until recently that medical professionals were to able to diagnose it for what it is. Otherwise, I would suspect that the intolerance may be a result of all of the chemicals and supplements that have been added to our foods. It's a shame that nut allergies can be so lethal, though. With many other food allergies (such as lactose intolerance), generations of evolution will eventually build up a tolerance to it, but how can it do that if nuts can actually kill someone? It's not like it can be slowly added back into the diet. Just scary.
Thanks for spreading the awareness - I hadn't thought of everything that you mentioned. And I will keep it in mind.
I am with you 100%. I just don't want to be the one who serves up the crap that kills a kid.
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